Getting a divorce can put someone under a lot of pressure. This can cause stress and challenges in their day-to-day lives, especially when a child is involved. Children can also be deeply affected by divorce. A child may see a divorce as their family breaking apart, which can be extremely difficult, especially if the child is young. It is in the parent's best interest to look out for their child by deciding on a parenting agreement. This way, they can help ensure their child's divorce transition is as smooth as possible. 

What is a Parenting Agreement? 

A parenting agreement or parenting plan is a written agreement that both parents have agreed upon that allocates decision-making responsibilities and parenting time. The parenting plan can be submitted by each party or jointly. Once submitted, the court will look the plan over and consider it for approval. If the parents cannot agree on a parenting plan, the court may require the parents to attend mediation. During mediation, the parents will work with a mediator to discuss any disagreements, explore possible solutions, and work toward an agreement. 

What Happens If A Spouse Fails To Meet The Parenting Agreement 

If parents find that their parenting plan is no longer feasible, they can petition the court for a modification. However, there are rules regarding when and how a parenting plan may be modified.

Planning a divorce can be an extremely taxing and challenging task to do by yourself. It is, unfortunately, extremely common for people to make mistakes during the divorce process that lead to additional stress and avoidable financial loss. An experienced divorce lawyer can help you take the steps needed to make your divorce process as smooth and error-free as possible. Listed below are a few things to avoid when planning a divorce. 

Do Not Hide Assets or Lie About Income and Finances 

During a divorce, the parties must provide full financial disclosure. During a divorce, the parties must provide full financial disclosure. This includes providing a clear and honest accounting of all their assets and liabilities. Hiding or lying about assets is considered fraud, which can result in serious consequences both during the divorce process as well as after it is completed. A qualified divorce attorney can help you understand your obligations under Illinois state law and make sure that you are not making any mistakes while disclosing your financial situation.

Do Not Get Your Children Involved

Bad-mouthing a parent to your child will almost always backfire. Divorce is between the two parents and should be treated as such. One of the most critical elements to focus on while planning to divorce with children involved should be to seek out the absolute best interest for them. If a judge discovers that a parent has been bad-mouthing to the point of parental alienation, this could influence the court’s decisions regarding the allocation of parental responsibilities and parenting time. 

The legal and financial aspects of a marriage are often overlooked. Finances, however, are an essential element during a marriage and a divorce. The division of complex assets can be especially difficult, especially if those assets have a high value. Assets such as security funds, bonds, and small-cap stocks can frequently change in value, making them difficult to address during a divorce.

Businesses are also challenging to address during divorce. Even if a business owner started the business before marriage, if both spouses contributed to the business, it could become a marital asset. This means that both spouses have a right to a share of the business’s value. If spouses can come to an agreement about how to divide complex assets, they may be able to get a resolution outside of the court. However, if they cannot make an agreement that works for both parties, the court will determine the division of their assets. 

Appraisal and Division of Complex Assets in a Divorce 

The worth of complex assets often changes in value over time, making it difficult to determine their value. Parties may disagree on the worth of these assets when deciding who deserves what. When dividing these assets, it may be worthwhile to work with an experienced financial advisor or appraisal expert to determine the value of these assets. Parties need to understand the value of these assets so they can determine an equitable division of assets. It is common for one spouse to buy out the other spouse’s share of complex assets. For example, one spouse may retain full ownership of a business while the other spouse receives real estate or other assets of equal value. 

Alimony, also known as spousal maintenance, is financial support that can be granted to a spouse in a divorce. This is meant to help spouses unable to care for themselves financially after a divorce. For the court to decide to award spousal maintenance to a spouse, the court considers both parties' income and the marriage's length. The Illinois Marrige and Dissolution of Marrige Act describes three different types of alimony: fixed-term, reviewable, and indefinite. 

Fixed-Term Spousal Maintenance 

Fixed-term alimony involves payments that are provided by one spouse to the other for a set amount of time. The termination date for these payments is decided in advance. This type of alimony is appropriate for people who, after a divorce, have the potential for future employment with an income that allows them financial stability. The goal of fixed-term alimony is to give a person the time to become dependent on themself. 

Indefinite Term Spousal Maintenance 

Indefinite-term alimony is when a court orders permanent alimony with no termination date. This is appropriate when a spouse has no realistic employment opportunities or after the end of a long marriage—usually given to spouses who, during the marriage, took on the role of a stay-at-home parent or caretaker of the home. 

A prenuptial agreement is an agreement that two spouses make before marriage. The agreement details how the spouses will handle their assets, debts, or other finances if the couple divorces or a spouse passes away and will go into effect when the couple gets married. 

While many people assume that prenuptial agreements can lead to complications within their marriage, they actually can do the opposite, creating an arrangement that removes any potential doubt parties may have regarding their financial interests in the case of a divorce.

There are several reasons why a couple may decide to get a prenuptial agreement. Some examples are children from a past marriage or just wanting to protect their personal assets or future inheritance. The prenuptial agreement must be in writing, agreed upon, and signed by both spouses. A court will typically enforce most prenuptial agreements, except for the few exceptions under certain circumstances, especially if the agreement seems grossly unfair or assets are distributed unjustly.